Which flowers to bring to a wake

It is a moment when nobody wants to be researching etiquette. Here are the essentials.

What is usually sent

• Wreath. The most formal format. It is sent on behalf of a family, a company or a group. It comes with a ribbon and a message.
• Casket spray. Elongated, it rests on top of the casket or beside it. An alternative to the wreath.
• Arrangement or basket. More restrained and personal. Appropriate when the relationship is close.
• Bouquet. To bring by hand, or to send to the family's home in the following days.

Which flowers

White, above all: lilies, chrysanthemums, roses and gladioli. White is the color of mourning and respect. You can add touches of green and, if the person was deeply loved and had a cheerful spirit, a soft color or two — but that is the family's decision, not the sender's.

What to write on the ribbon

Something brief plus the sender's name is customary: “With deepest sympathy — The Gómez Family”, “With love — The Sales Team”, “Rest in peace”. It is not the place for long messages.

Details we need to deliver

The full name of the deceased, the name and exact address of the funeral home, and the visiting hours. Wakes have limited hours, so it is best to let us know as soon as you can. We deliver to funeral homes and cemeteries in Buenos Aires City and Greater Buenos Aires.